About
Everyone has a personal story that informs the way they learned how to do relationships. This is referred to as your attachment style. The good news is that it is not "etched in stone". Find out how understanding attachment styles can help you navigate relationships in a heathier way.
NICE TO MEET YOU
I'm Ryan Holley
I enjoy people! I am a life-long learner and a serious student of human behaviors. Although it didn't seem like good learning opportunities at the time, my many "boot-camp" life experiences have helped me to understand diverse perspectives and develop compassionate understanding for relationship trauma. The work that I do is grounded in solid psychology research. I have been trained over the years by a psychotherapist mentor and participated in coach training.
I am a veteran of the U.S. Air Force, and have managed large teams of employees in my earlier work career.
Today, I use what I’ve learned in my studies and through my experiences, to help people make sense of relationship pain and confusion. I’ll show you how to build awareness of what is "your stuff" and "what belongs to someone else". I will help you to stop second-guessing yourself.
In my private life, I am a devoted father to 4 young boys. I also love boating, fishing and scuba diving.
Why People Need Relationship Coaching
Are you tired of relationship pain?
Of course, you are!
The good news is that you do not have to reinvent the relationship wheel all alone.
Find out how you can make sense of it all and enjoy relationship health and goodness ASAP!
Get a Relationship Roadmap for Success
Find out how to stop doubting yourself.
Learn how to trust and feel good about yourself.
Discover the way to immediately read relationship "signposts”.
Understand what it takes to have a healthy relationship.
Bring your authentic self into relationships and build true emotional intimacy.…
Are you personalizing your partner's toxic behaviors?
You are not alone in feeling this way!
Find out what is "your stuff" and what is "their stuff".
.Learn to recognize "showstopper" behaviors that indicate someone is not relationship material.
Emotional Intelligence Course
Are you tired of confusing relationships that end in heartache? Image being able to discern gaslighting instead of second-guessing yourself! Emotional Intelligence (EQ) can be developed. You can start making the positive change you want today.
- 50 Videos
- Video transcripts
- 14 Practical exercises on slideshow videos
- Online access
- Go at your own pace
How Can I Afford Coaching?
The real questions are "How can I afford to not get coaching?" and "Do I really want to keep repeating this emotional pain?"
We have options for different budgets:
Individual coaching focuses on your specific concerns and situations.
The Foundational Emotional Intelligence course can be added on to boost your individual coaching sessions or taken as a stand-alone.
"I wanted to let you know that my conversation with you was more valuable than the attachment therapist I spoke with. Keep up the good work!"
"Hey Ryan! You probably get a lot of these but I couldn't feel more grateful for finding your page a few weeks ago. It really provides a great perspective for me as someone working with an anxious attachment style working towards making it a secure one."
"Thank you for your videos. I am an avoidant and didn't realize it until I watched your videos. Wow, do they resonate with me! The risk of abandonment is so great that I disappear in a relationship or create a fight when I feel any type of threat to the security of the relationship. Now that I realize this is a real thing I can look for ways to fix my behavior. Thank-you for all of your content. It is incredibly helpful."
Why My Team and I Do It
"Thank you for articulating this perfectly".
"Thanks bro, I needed to hear that".
"Thanks for this reassurance".
"You make it so easy to see".
"I wish I knew this sooner".
"Why doesn't everyone know this...the world would be better"
The team at Coach Ryan LLC agrees. We believe the world will be much more understanding, kinder and compassionate when emotional intelligence is taught and shared.
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